one step at a time...

Human growth takes place when we take small steps. Each time we face our fears, we become more of the courageous person that we would like to be.
It has been said that life is the most patient teacher. You will be presented with the same experience over and over until you learn the best way to deal with the situation.. This is not because life is cruel. Rather, it is because things have a way of coming back to haunt us when we don't deal with them. One form of intelligence is the ability to learn from mistakes. When you are presented with a painful experience, take the time to think about how you can avoid it in the future.

Life is the sum of experiences that we encounter as we go through life. Day to day struggles and triumphs are experienced by all of the world's creatures. As human beings, when we encounter a challenge, we have freedom to choose how to react. Every decision that we make leads us down a different road. We will never come to exactly the same crossroads. Every decision the we make has significance. The tiniest choice that we make reverberates throughout the entire universe.

We all have problems as we try to go through life. There is no such thing as never having any barriers on our path to each destination.You need to accept the fact that you will have to deal with difficult problems, and probably more often than you want. You want to try not to have a one track mind, or close mind, when you are dealing with struggles. Be open for suggestions and assistance.

Sometimes we are faced with some difficult decisions. Often, we are uncertain as to which road to take. However, we must think the choices through and weigh out the positives and the negatives. We have to trust ourselves and try to make the best decision possible.  

Life is about choices. Everything we do in life is based upon a choice. We choose how we act as well as how we react. When something negative comes our way, we can choose to let it over power us and make our lives miserable, or we can choose to think positively and find a way to overcome it. 

Have this confidence that every difficult decisions will have to end one day. It is essential to keep faith and have patience.To have faith is to defy logic. It takes faith to think positively. One always have the solution of every difficulties after having patience. It is the key to all difficult situations. Think positively.To think positive means to have a mental attitude that allows into the mind only those thoughts, words, and images that work to move you forward through growth and success.  Thinking positive means to expect only that good things will happen, because they are supposed to happen.

Being a positive person doesn't mean skipping through life on rainbows, not accepting the bad and troublesome things that can happen in life...it deals with how you handle those tough situations. Positive thinkers react to bad situations in a positive way, and are able to manage those down times in a productive way that is less threatening to their mental and physical health.

"You'll never find a rainbow if you're looking down."

Nothing paralyzes us like fear of failure, but everyone who has ever been successful has experienced failure at some point. Don't let that fear stop you from moving forward. If things don't go your way the first time, look at what went wrong, see what you can learn from it, and then enthusiastically use those lessons going forward.If you want to be positive and productive, focus on the present and what you are doing today.So look for the humor in everyday life, seek out others who make you laugh, and try smiling instead of scowling when interacting with others.Optimism is a happiness magnet.  If you stay positive, good things and good people will be drawn to you.

 No matter what, there are always at least two options.  If you can’t physically change something, you can change the way you think about it.  You can sit in the dark, or you can find your inner light and discover powerful pieces of yourself you never knew existed.  You can view a crisis as an invitation to learn something new, viewing the shake-up in your outer world as an enlightening opportunity to wake-up your inner world.

Every birth has a death, Similarly even tough situation has an end. Keep faith and do not despair!!!

secrets of success

We all have the urge live a better life with all our heartfelt wants and to rather have a luxurious than one filled with obstacles. However we do not really always have want we want in our life. Every single person in this world is facing some sort of trial or test. There may be some facing trials in education, others in their jobs, still others in their businesses, and still more facing problems with family or friends. It is certainly difficult for a person to look at the tragedies of the world today and not feel helpless and sad. Problems are Universal!!! Life is full of difficulties and obstacles, from birth to death. At times, Life seems like a hurdle race. We are sure of encountering hurdles, but almost always we are taken by surprise. It is necessary to accept that life in general is full of difficulties and adversities. It may feel that we are not getting anywhere but we have to recognize the fact that patience and perseverance can overcome mountains.

               If we want to be successful in this world ,we have to be patient.

let us consider a very simple fact. We all have once come across a little bird, its beauty might have attracted our attention but maybe there is more than its beauty that we have to pay attention to.

Despite of scorching sun rays or clear pebbles of the rain, birds fly all around without losing sight of their ultimate goal and they bring little little parts and gradually build their nests.They adorn their little world forgetting about all the possible disasters.

Similarly we have to bear in mind that all our hardships can be tackled when we have patience. Every triumph is not of the same kind. Sometimes it arrives early and sometimes it takes a long time.So many times in our lives something happens to us and we feel that this is the worst thing that can happen to us. But then after the trial we realize that this is the best thing that could have happened to us. Be patient, because with any trial that you are going to face there will be ease. One must not imagine that victory is impossible and very difficult.We all will go through trials and tribulations but nevertheless we will be relieved.

We find it hard to complete our tasks because we feel like abandoning them as soon as they become difficult, and our miseries are further aggravated by our impatience. However, it is possible to accept and endure pain if we have a good reason to do so; and whenever we practice such patience we actually reduce our sufferings. For example, if someone were to stick a sharp needle into our flesh we would find the pain unbearable, but if the needle contained a vaccine that we needed, our tolerance would increase considerably.

If we are able to endure adversities we will reap great rewards.

Patience and perseverance, tolerance and forbearance are common traits of the world’s most successful people

Stay strong :)

Sometimes we are swamped by fears and anxiety.

Our sadness and worry become unbearable 

and even our thoughts are consumed by so much hatred.
It almost feels as if the horizon right in front of our eyes are hacked away.
For then nights seem barren and act like a black dagger.
All that we can do at that moment is NOT TO DESPAIR.
Despite we are given the ink of grief,

We can still write a new tale.

If we buckle down and explore all avenues,

it is certain that we will be able to break the back of the beast

and come out with flying colours.

Always remember for every night there is a new dawn which brings along new possibilities.

Be optimistic and self accepting

Have an attitude of mind and disposition of heart that will always open you to life.
success is failure turned inside out.
Champion is someone who gets up even when he can't.

"Everything is okay in the end, if it's not okay, then it's not the end."

Acceptance is serenity

It's akin to walking in a room filled with various colored items and focusing only on items of a specific color. If you do so, your mind will be able to easily mask the other colors as you focus on items of that specific color. Our life is no different. When we let our minds look for problems, we see plenty of them. Instead, if we rather look away from problems and focus on possibilities and go for solutions, we will get those too.

Look at those who are inferior to you and do not look at those who are superior to you, for that is more likely to keep you away from despising God's favor on you.
If you are stricken by poverty, others are chained in debt.
If you do not have shoes,others have no feet.
If you feel pain now, others have been aching for years
so do not be sad
let all bygones be bygones
what is predestined for you, you shall see it!
Being sad will not change anything
sadness spoils your life, destroys your happiness and turns it into wretchedness
so do not be sad
See how vast is the earth
How nice are the gardens and forests
How bright are the stars
Every cloud has a silver lining
After long nights come the bright sun
Life will soon give you a smile!
so be ready to get it and do not be sad
Real life is that spent in happiness
so cross out sad days from your age
Sorrow avails not!!!

Let's therefore, use gratitude to motivate ourselves to find possibilities and solutions and not the negatives associated with problems.

Refuse to sink...

if you see yourself  lost against circumstances
if your destinations get hazy
Lower your sight for a moment
Be strong just start moving

This is your journey, it's your way

Color your world in the colour of your dreams

It is not necessary for your dreams to be very grand or very big.
It is only needful for your dreams to be very shiny.

Dreams come true when intentions become actions.

Give yourself permission to believe in your unique expression so as to make your dreams come true.
Let your imaginations design the plan towards making your dreams come true.

Rain is temporary

When disasters or sudden attacks strike our families.  

When our dreams of success are shaken.  

When illness and death cut down our beloved
Only hope can raise our heads and help us cope.
hope of a better tomorrow,
 a brighter future,
a happier day.

  Hope that life holds more than what we see and experience.