Wednesday 2 April 2014

one step at a time...




Human growth takes place when we take small steps. Each time we face our fears, we become more of the courageous person that we would like to be.
It has been said that life is the most patient teacher. You will be presented with the same experience over and over until you learn the best way to deal with the situation.. This is not because life is cruel. Rather, it is because things have a way of coming back to haunt us when we don't deal with them. One form of intelligence is the ability to learn from mistakes. When you are presented with a painful experience, take the time to think about how you can avoid it in the future.

Life is the sum of experiences that we encounter as we go through life. Day to day struggles and triumphs are experienced by all of the world's creatures. As human beings, when we encounter a challenge, we have freedom to choose how to react. Every decision that we make leads us down a different road. We will never come to exactly the same crossroads. Every decision the we make has significance. The tiniest choice that we make reverberates throughout the entire universe.
We all have problems as we try to go through life. There is no such thing as never having any barriers on our path to each destination.You need to accept the fact that you will have to deal with difficult problems, and probably more often than you want. You want to try not to have a one track mind, or close mind, when you are dealing with struggles. Be open for suggestions and assistance.

Sometimes we are faced with some difficult decisions. Often, we are uncertain as to which road to take. However, we must think the choices through and weigh out the positives and the negatives. We have to trust ourselves and try to make the best decision possible.  


Life is about choices. Everything we do in life is based upon a choice. We choose how we act as well as how we react. When something negative comes our way, we can choose to let it over power us and make our lives miserable, or we can choose to think positively and find a way to overcome it. 
Have this confidence that every difficult decisions will have to end one day. It is essential to keep faith and have patience.To have faith is to defy logic. It takes faith to think positively. One always have the solution of every difficulties after having patience. It is the key to all difficult situations. Think positively.To think positive means to have a mental attitude that allows into the mind only those thoughts, words, and images that work to move you forward through growth and success.  Thinking positive means to expect only that good things will happen, because they are supposed to happen.

Being a positive person doesn't mean skipping through life on rainbows, not accepting the bad and troublesome things that can happen in life...it deals with how you handle those tough situations. Positive thinkers react to bad situations in a positive way, and are able to manage those down times in a productive way that is less threatening to their mental and physical health.

"You'll never find a rainbow if you're looking down."


Nothing paralyzes us like fear of failure, but everyone who has ever been successful has experienced failure at some point. Don't let that fear stop you from moving forward. If things don't go your way the first time, look at what went wrong, see what you can learn from it, and then enthusiastically use those lessons going forward.If you want to be positive and productive, focus on the present and what you are doing today.So look for the humor in everyday life, seek out others who make you laugh, and try smiling instead of scowling when interacting with others.Optimism is a happiness magnet.  If you stay positive, good things and good people will be drawn to you.

 No matter what, there are always at least two options.  If you can’t physically change something, you can change the way you think about it.  You can sit in the dark, or you can find your inner light and discover powerful pieces of yourself you never knew existed.  You can view a crisis as an invitation to learn something new, viewing the shake-up in your outer world as an enlightening opportunity to wake-up your inner world.


Every birth has a death, Similarly even tough situation has an end. Keep faith and do not despair!!!