And its a wrap 2014

Well another chapter closes...
In a few hours this year will be gone too. But before saying goodbye 2014 and welcome 2015 why not we try to learn things from this year

I guess everyone has gone through bad things this year. Trusting issues, wrong decisions etc...

Let us not be sad upon these things but rather try to learn so as next year we will not repeat these things again.

Out there not everyone is the same. Indeed we live in a cruel world. We should never believe that if we wish good for others, they will also wish the same for us.So expect less and do not trust blindly.

Most importantly connect yourself to god before anyone else. Trust him more than anyone.Know that his plans are way better than your dreams.

Life is short. Yes sad fact but what we can actually do it to make the most of it everyday.

Run, fall and break your face. Then learn to get up again and find your happiness on your own.

Never depend on others for you to be happy. Happiness comes from inside of you. And ofcourse do not chase big happiness. Little things are what really matters; feeling raindrops dancing in the sunlight or just doing what makes you happy.

start afresh. Yes you can...

Never too late...

Hello world...
And it is December,the most beautiful time of the year...

We are left with only 31 days to end this year and it is up to us to decide whether to make the most of it and end this year beautifully or to keep it as it.

For those who could not make change during the last 11 months, worry not. You got 31 days left and it is enough to make this happen

December is the month of happiness, colours and light. So rise and start to shine bright...

Pick up pieces of your life and try to make it even better. Tighten the loose ends of your life and amend what is not good...

Remember always it is in your hand for you to be happy

❤❤❤

Build your own world of magic...

Something like love...❤❤❤

In amidst of an ordinary life, there comes a moment when we come across love. That moment weighs out anything else in life.It is a more potent sentiment than a simple liking for another.

There is really no such thing as conditional love and unconditional love: it is just that there are conditions and there is love. Love is the most profound emotion known to human beings

  "We don't climb in love, we don’t walk in love or stand in love, we fall in love."

Falling in love may one of the greatest feelings ever. There is an  actual chemical process that happens to a person who is falling in love. All of the senses have a greater intensity. Colors seem brighter, sounds more resonant and smells more powerful when you are in love. When you are with your lover there is no greater feeling in the world, and when you're not you spend all your time thinking of each other. Falling in love is truly an awesome feeling.

The one that you first truly have feelings for. One person that you will never forget, their love will leave an imprint on your heart which will be there forever. At the moment you do not care that you will eventually lose them after a break up because that emotion is amazing.

There's nothing like the love. You've never had these feelings before and you imagine that no one else has ever felt this way about anybody. Your boyfriend or girlfriend are the greatest thing ever and you want to be with them all the time. Your senses become alive as you fall in love for the first time. You're not even thinking of the possibility that you may break up because that has never happened to you before. 

 Love is filled with the optimism that you will be together forever.You start to see yourself through someone else eyes, and are often wondering what you could do to be a better person to them.

The first person you ever had feelings for. It doesn't matter if it happened when you were five, or fifty-five. It doesn't matter if he or she loved you back. All that matters is that at one point in time, he or she was the first person you ever loved and wanted to be with. That rush you get when you see your lover. You feel weightless, and everyone else seems to disappear. You want to fall into their arms or kiss them. You restrain yourself, waiting for that perfect moment. Be patient. You will be together someday.

There may be chaos in all areas of your life but when you come home to the person that you love the most in the world, nothing else matters. A loving relationship may build slowly like a train coming in the distance until when it get to you it emits a deafening roar.

When it comes to true love, commitment is more than just monogamy. Its the knowledge that your partner cares for you and has your back, no matter what the circumstances.Some people think love is just talking kind, warm and cute words to each other, love is just telling “I love you”, is just being together and having fun. But reality is a bit different and love is hard. So what the true love meant to be? It’s caring of someone you love, being with him when he needs your help, doing everything to protect and look after him.

"Everyone’s relationship is unique"

A healthy relationship is about both people, not how much one person can get from (or give to) the other.A supportive, caring relationship allows people to reveal details about themselves — their likes and dislikes, dreams and worries, proud moments, disappointments, fears, and weaknesses.When two people care,  they offer support when the other person is feeling vulnerable or afraid. They don't put down or insult their partner, even when they disagree.Giving, receiving, revealing, and supporting is a back-and-forth process: One person shares a detail, then the other person shares something, then the first person feels safe enough to share a little more. In this way, the relationship gradually builds into a place of openness, trust, and support where each partner knows that the other will be there when times are tough. Both feel liked and accepted for who they are.

 Loving relationships teach us self-respect as well as respect for others. Love is one of the most fulfilling things we can have in our lives

In real love, absence makes your heart grow fonder of the one you love. Real love can and will survive the test of time and distance.

Real love is rooted in the other person’s total personality, not just their physical equipment. The time you spent together caused your personalities to “grow together.”

 True love, the real kind that both gets your blood pumping with excitement and has the ability to stand the test of time, comes not alone but hand-in-hand with respect, trust, honesty, and forgiveness.

When you are separated, a part of you seems to be missing. Another person, however attractive, cannot fill the void in your heart. When you are separated, you may feel anxious as well as sad. The thought may come, “What if he or she meets somebody else?”

Real love is unselfish, committed love. You want to do all you can to bring happiness to the other person. Your overall attitude is that of giving to the relationship and not that of getting what you can out of.

Sometimes in a relationship, it happens that you have a brotherly/sisterly relationship with your partner's best friends. This relation very often has a great importance in your love life as very often they help you out to build a much more stronger relation.They will support every aspect of your relationship and will try their best to help the lovers to put much effort in their relation. They will support their friend in ensuring the relationship keeps going and he/she is faithful. Very often they are the ones who will see the things amiss in your relationship and they make it an urge to help you out.

This is indeed another beautiful aspect of love. It is an agent to build up other relations that have a great importance in our life.

There is always one person who will have your heart. Even if they do not form part of your lives, there is a love that will always tie you up to them. That person will always be special to you in every possible way

Love is the emblem of eternity: it confounds all notions of time and effaces all memory of a beginning and the fear of an end.A strong, healthy relationship can be one of the best supports in your life. Good relationships improve all aspects of your life, strengthening your health, your mind, and your connections with others.

A little thought

Sometimes beaten by adversity,
sometimes lost to wishes..

It's a partridge of an angry sun..
Who does have even the slightest of reservations, 

It doesn't ever bows to any pressure.. 

It doesn't care about the boundaries that the world follows,
The earth of the heart is dry,
The moisture is lost somewhere..

Even having borne the attacks of love,
and losing you again and again,
it still doesn't learn to plot against you...

it's always about you

Believe in yourself

Have faith in your abilities without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers, you cannot be successful or happy

God created only one you,
precious in his sight.
In all the whole world there is only one you.
there is only one person with your talents, your experience, your gift.
No one can take your place !!!
Begin now. Start afresh.
Give yourself a new beginning. Today
You are now and that is all you need to be.
You cannot earn or deserve this new life.
It is given as a gift, freely.
That is the great miracle:that God loves you.
So celebrate the miracle and celebrate you!

Words are powerful weapons!!!

Today, we live in a such a modern society whereby we are all in a kind of rat race. We are all worried about our own little world and are blinded with our selfish motives that sometimes we fail to see what is going  on around us .Without forgetting the fact that very often we do cause certain sort of pain to others.

It is very important for us to  ensure that at any moment of our life, we should not try to hurt others with whatever we say. We have to use our words carefully.

Like very often, we use much criticism and sarcasm while talking to people.Maybe we do not realize but these things always cause destructive harm. Most of the time, we tend to criticize others about their looks, their behaviour etc... Not forgetting the types of words we use 'effings, mothers and fathers' But have we ever try to think how bad that person might be feeling?

I do not think so...

It is as if when someone is not in my good books then let him bear my bad words!!!. When are we going to realize that words have great impact on people. Maybe short in length but heavy to bear.


We live in an open world so why should we close the doors of our brains???

We need to be careful with our tongue. If ever you feel that someone is wrong or the way of transmitting his message is wrong, better use certain constructive words or rather give her/him suggestions than to say things that might discourage him/her. You can also simply talk to that person privately instead of blowing things in publics.

Haaa. The biggest problem of people; GOSSIPING!!! Hello people find another exercise then rather keeping moving that tongue and lips which do nothing but harm to others!  Stop it. You like moving your tongues and lips please sing!!! Even if you have a cracked voice sing but do not talk about people's life. That's horrible. Let people breathe and live freely. Do not spread false humours or build stories on people's life. I am very much sure your own life is so much filled with problems. Hence cater for yourself first then poke your nose into other's life.

Always try to put yourself in the  place of the person about whom you are badmouthing. Well i do not think you would ever like to hear these very words through the mouth of another person.

Taste your words!!!

A little reminder :) Everyone has his suffering, some suffer too much while others too little

Today we live in such a modern society whereby no matter how much we possess, we are always in search of more and more. As  if our quench for materialistic things is never ending. We are all worried about our little being that sometimes we fail to see that around our vicinity there are people who are suffering and sometimes they lack mere things that we do not even appreciate.

Our mind and hearts are infested by a disease called ungratefulness. Lets us consider daily facts of our life. Our parents always put our needs first, always before them but we always have something to rebuke them. Why so? It is as if we have sold our integrity. Maybe we have to slow down and start open our eyes to things surrounding us. We need to start be generous and kind. In order to be kind, we have to pay attention to what is happening around us.  As we notice more things and help others, we get a glimpse of other ways of looking at things.  A broader perspective helps us to keep things in context.

Generosity is defined as the willingness to give freely.Generosity and kindness covers such a vast field, and is such an ocean of a subject, that to cover all of its details is an almost impossible task. Generosity and kindness doesn't only mean that you give when you still gain or retain, but in fact means to give when you yourself hardly have anything.


Our worldly possessions are bounties from God. Everything originates from God and everything will return to Him, thus, it is logical to behave as if that which we possess is merely a loan, something we are obligated to preserve, protect and ultimately share.

However, being generous does not only mean giving freely from what you have in abundance. It can be as simple as a smile, helping an elderly person with their groceries or removing objects from the road or path.Generosity does not lie in giving away something that is no longer useful but in giving freely from the things we love or need. It involves everything we can do for others with our time, actions and good  deeds

We have to start to think of others as we think of ourself. We need to be selfless that is we must help other with complete satisfaction and cheerful faces. That will be soothing to both the one who is helping out and the one who is being helped. We must develop that urge that we have to strive to do what ever we can do to lend a helping hand.

We have to be constructive and beneficial members of our society. Instead of criticizing and ignoring evils of our society we have to come forward and start collaborating to make a better place for everyone to enjoy a good living.

When you are kind to others, the impact of your action doesn't stop there.  Many times the recipient of your kindness and others who see or hear about your kindness are inspired to be kinder.  The ripples of kindness are truly endless.

one step at a time...

Human growth takes place when we take small steps. Each time we face our fears, we become more of the courageous person that we would like to be.
It has been said that life is the most patient teacher. You will be presented with the same experience over and over until you learn the best way to deal with the situation.. This is not because life is cruel. Rather, it is because things have a way of coming back to haunt us when we don't deal with them. One form of intelligence is the ability to learn from mistakes. When you are presented with a painful experience, take the time to think about how you can avoid it in the future.

Life is the sum of experiences that we encounter as we go through life. Day to day struggles and triumphs are experienced by all of the world's creatures. As human beings, when we encounter a challenge, we have freedom to choose how to react. Every decision that we make leads us down a different road. We will never come to exactly the same crossroads. Every decision the we make has significance. The tiniest choice that we make reverberates throughout the entire universe.

We all have problems as we try to go through life. There is no such thing as never having any barriers on our path to each destination.You need to accept the fact that you will have to deal with difficult problems, and probably more often than you want. You want to try not to have a one track mind, or close mind, when you are dealing with struggles. Be open for suggestions and assistance.

Sometimes we are faced with some difficult decisions. Often, we are uncertain as to which road to take. However, we must think the choices through and weigh out the positives and the negatives. We have to trust ourselves and try to make the best decision possible.  

Life is about choices. Everything we do in life is based upon a choice. We choose how we act as well as how we react. When something negative comes our way, we can choose to let it over power us and make our lives miserable, or we can choose to think positively and find a way to overcome it. 

Have this confidence that every difficult decisions will have to end one day. It is essential to keep faith and have patience.To have faith is to defy logic. It takes faith to think positively. One always have the solution of every difficulties after having patience. It is the key to all difficult situations. Think positively.To think positive means to have a mental attitude that allows into the mind only those thoughts, words, and images that work to move you forward through growth and success.  Thinking positive means to expect only that good things will happen, because they are supposed to happen.

Being a positive person doesn't mean skipping through life on rainbows, not accepting the bad and troublesome things that can happen in life...it deals with how you handle those tough situations. Positive thinkers react to bad situations in a positive way, and are able to manage those down times in a productive way that is less threatening to their mental and physical health.

"You'll never find a rainbow if you're looking down."

Nothing paralyzes us like fear of failure, but everyone who has ever been successful has experienced failure at some point. Don't let that fear stop you from moving forward. If things don't go your way the first time, look at what went wrong, see what you can learn from it, and then enthusiastically use those lessons going forward.If you want to be positive and productive, focus on the present and what you are doing today.So look for the humor in everyday life, seek out others who make you laugh, and try smiling instead of scowling when interacting with others.Optimism is a happiness magnet.  If you stay positive, good things and good people will be drawn to you.

 No matter what, there are always at least two options.  If you can’t physically change something, you can change the way you think about it.  You can sit in the dark, or you can find your inner light and discover powerful pieces of yourself you never knew existed.  You can view a crisis as an invitation to learn something new, viewing the shake-up in your outer world as an enlightening opportunity to wake-up your inner world.

Every birth has a death, Similarly even tough situation has an end. Keep faith and do not despair!!!

secrets of success

We all have the urge live a better life with all our heartfelt wants and to rather have a luxurious than one filled with obstacles. However we do not really always have want we want in our life. Every single person in this world is facing some sort of trial or test. There may be some facing trials in education, others in their jobs, still others in their businesses, and still more facing problems with family or friends. It is certainly difficult for a person to look at the tragedies of the world today and not feel helpless and sad. Problems are Universal!!! Life is full of difficulties and obstacles, from birth to death. At times, Life seems like a hurdle race. We are sure of encountering hurdles, but almost always we are taken by surprise. It is necessary to accept that life in general is full of difficulties and adversities. It may feel that we are not getting anywhere but we have to recognize the fact that patience and perseverance can overcome mountains.

               If we want to be successful in this world ,we have to be patient.

let us consider a very simple fact. We all have once come across a little bird, its beauty might have attracted our attention but maybe there is more than its beauty that we have to pay attention to.

Despite of scorching sun rays or clear pebbles of the rain, birds fly all around without losing sight of their ultimate goal and they bring little little parts and gradually build their nests.They adorn their little world forgetting about all the possible disasters.

Similarly we have to bear in mind that all our hardships can be tackled when we have patience. Every triumph is not of the same kind. Sometimes it arrives early and sometimes it takes a long time.So many times in our lives something happens to us and we feel that this is the worst thing that can happen to us. But then after the trial we realize that this is the best thing that could have happened to us. Be patient, because with any trial that you are going to face there will be ease. One must not imagine that victory is impossible and very difficult.We all will go through trials and tribulations but nevertheless we will be relieved.

We find it hard to complete our tasks because we feel like abandoning them as soon as they become difficult, and our miseries are further aggravated by our impatience. However, it is possible to accept and endure pain if we have a good reason to do so; and whenever we practice such patience we actually reduce our sufferings. For example, if someone were to stick a sharp needle into our flesh we would find the pain unbearable, but if the needle contained a vaccine that we needed, our tolerance would increase considerably.

If we are able to endure adversities we will reap great rewards.

Patience and perseverance, tolerance and forbearance are common traits of the world’s most successful people

Stay strong :)

Sometimes we are swamped by fears and anxiety.

Our sadness and worry become unbearable 

and even our thoughts are consumed by so much hatred.
It almost feels as if the horizon right in front of our eyes are hacked away.
For then nights seem barren and act like a black dagger.
All that we can do at that moment is NOT TO DESPAIR.
Despite we are given the ink of grief,

We can still write a new tale.

If we buckle down and explore all avenues,

it is certain that we will be able to break the back of the beast

and come out with flying colours.

Always remember for every night there is a new dawn which brings along new possibilities.

Be optimistic and self accepting

Have an attitude of mind and disposition of heart that will always open you to life.
success is failure turned inside out.
Champion is someone who gets up even when he can't.

"Everything is okay in the end, if it's not okay, then it's not the end."

Acceptance is serenity

It's akin to walking in a room filled with various colored items and focusing only on items of a specific color. If you do so, your mind will be able to easily mask the other colors as you focus on items of that specific color. Our life is no different. When we let our minds look for problems, we see plenty of them. Instead, if we rather look away from problems and focus on possibilities and go for solutions, we will get those too.

Look at those who are inferior to you and do not look at those who are superior to you, for that is more likely to keep you away from despising God's favor on you.
If you are stricken by poverty, others are chained in debt.
If you do not have shoes,others have no feet.
If you feel pain now, others have been aching for years
so do not be sad
let all bygones be bygones
what is predestined for you, you shall see it!
Being sad will not change anything
sadness spoils your life, destroys your happiness and turns it into wretchedness
so do not be sad
See how vast is the earth
How nice are the gardens and forests
How bright are the stars
Every cloud has a silver lining
After long nights come the bright sun
Life will soon give you a smile!
so be ready to get it and do not be sad
Real life is that spent in happiness
so cross out sad days from your age
Sorrow avails not!!!

Let's therefore, use gratitude to motivate ourselves to find possibilities and solutions and not the negatives associated with problems.

Refuse to sink...

if you see yourself  lost against circumstances
if your destinations get hazy
Lower your sight for a moment
Be strong just start moving

This is your journey, it's your way

Color your world in the colour of your dreams

It is not necessary for your dreams to be very grand or very big.
It is only needful for your dreams to be very shiny.

Dreams come true when intentions become actions.

Give yourself permission to believe in your unique expression so as to make your dreams come true.
Let your imaginations design the plan towards making your dreams come true.

Rain is temporary

When disasters or sudden attacks strike our families.  

When our dreams of success are shaken.  

When illness and death cut down our beloved
Only hope can raise our heads and help us cope.
hope of a better tomorrow,
 a brighter future,
a happier day.

  Hope that life holds more than what we see and experience.

appear as you are!!!!

A real person is authentic and consistent. 
He saw the inner truth that lives and behaves according to the movement of his heart. 
He reveals himself as he is and does not hide anything because he accepts all fully.
The real person is also free, because only the truth sets us free. 
One that eludes the truth personally use a lot of energy to hide from others.
A real person obliges us to offer the truth of our own heart
Before him we find the courage to reveal our truth to all

if you are tired and the journey seems to be lengthy
if you seem to be mistaken
do not be disappointed
if life seems to be absurd

if you are disappointed by too many things and people

do not find to understand why

if you tried to love and to be loved,

if you have known the worst situation

do not let a task half done

if others look at you reprochfully

if they are irritated by you

do not revolt

do not ask them anything

start afresh 

 because the tree flourishes forgetting the winter

 because the twig flowers without asking why 

  because the bird makes its nest without thinking of the fall

 because life is hope and a new beginning

Just believe!!!

Laughing is risking to seem dumb.
Crying is risking to be sentimental.
Presenting its feelings is risking to expose his hidden secrets.
Talking about one's dreams is to risk to lose them.
To love is risking not to be loved in return.
But there is a need to take risks
because the greatest danger in life is to do nothing at stake at all
The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing and is nothing.
He may avoid suffering and sorrow,
but he learns nothing, doesn't feel anything, can neither
change nor develop.
Can neither live, nor love.
Chained by his certainty he becomes a slave and abandons his liberty.
Only those who risk are free...
Despite heavy rainfall and the scorching sun
birds fly all around and bring little parts to make his home
you also gather small happiness to adorn your life
Whoever nurses a garden is the one who will obtain the flowers...

Whatever you give to life, it gives you back.
Do not hate anybody
The hatred which comes out from you will someday come back to you
Love others
and Love will come back to you

celebrate you ♥

you are worth celebrating
you are worth everything
you have the immense potential to love, to care, to create, to grow and to sacrifice if you believe in yourself
it does not matter what you have been
the wrong you have done
the mistakes you made
the people you have hurt
you are loved in spite of everything
so love yourself and nourish the good within you
♥♥♥