Monday 5 May 2014

Words are powerful weapons!!!

Today, we live in a such a modern society whereby we are all in a kind of rat race. We are all worried about our own little world and are blinded with our selfish motives that sometimes we fail to see what is going  on around us .Without forgetting the fact that very often we do cause certain sort of pain to others.

It is very important for us to  ensure that at any moment of our life, we should not try to hurt others with whatever we say. We have to use our words carefully.

Like very often, we use much criticism and sarcasm while talking to people.Maybe we do not realize but these things always cause destructive harm. Most of the time, we tend to criticize others about their looks, their behaviour etc... Not forgetting the types of words we use 'effings, mothers and fathers' But have we ever try to think how bad that person might be feeling?

I do not think so...

It is as if when someone is not in my good books then let him bear my bad words!!!. When are we going to realize that words have great impact on people. Maybe short in length but heavy to bear.


We live in an open world so why should we close the doors of our brains???

We need to be careful with our tongue. If ever you feel that someone is wrong or the way of transmitting his message is wrong, better use certain constructive words or rather give her/him suggestions than to say things that might discourage him/her. You can also simply talk to that person privately instead of blowing things in publics.

Haaa. The biggest problem of people; GOSSIPING!!! Hello people find another exercise then rather keeping moving that tongue and lips which do nothing but harm to others!  Stop it. You like moving your tongues and lips please sing!!! Even if you have a cracked voice sing but do not talk about people's life. That's horrible. Let people breathe and live freely. Do not spread false humours or build stories on people's life. I am very much sure your own life is so much filled with problems. Hence cater for yourself first then poke your nose into other's life.


Always try to put yourself in the  place of the person about whom you are badmouthing. Well i do not think you would ever like to hear these very words through the mouth of another person.

Taste your words!!!

A little reminder :) Everyone has his suffering, some suffer too much while others too little



Today we live in such a modern society whereby no matter how much we possess, we are always in search of more and more. As  if our quench for materialistic things is never ending. We are all worried about our little being that sometimes we fail to see that around our vicinity there are people who are suffering and sometimes they lack mere things that we do not even appreciate.

Our mind and hearts are infested by a disease called ungratefulness. Lets us consider daily facts of our life. Our parents always put our needs first, always before them but we always have something to rebuke them. Why so? It is as if we have sold our integrity. Maybe we have to slow down and start open our eyes to things surrounding us. We need to start be generous and kind.
In order to be kind, we have to pay attention to what is happening around us.  As we notice more things and help others, we get a glimpse of other ways of looking at things.  A broader perspective helps us to keep things in context.

Generosity is defined as the willingness to give freely.Generosity and kindness covers such a vast field, and is such an ocean of a subject, that to cover all of its details is an almost impossible task. Generosity and kindness doesn't only mean that you give when you still gain or retain, but in fact means to give when you yourself hardly have anything.


Our worldly possessions are bounties from God. Everything originates from God and everything will return to Him, thus, it is logical to behave as if that which we possess is merely a loan, something we are obligated to preserve, protect and ultimately share.


However, being generous does not only mean giving freely from what you have in abundance. It can be as simple as a smile, helping an elderly person with their groceries or removing objects from the road or path.Generosity does not lie in giving away something that is no longer useful but in giving freely from the things we love or need. It involves everything we can do for others with our time, actions and good  deeds

We have to start to think of others as we think of ourself. We need to be selfless that is we must help other with complete satisfaction and cheerful faces. That will be soothing to both the one who is helping out and the one who is being helped. We must develop that urge that we have to strive to do what ever we can do to lend a helping hand.

We have to be constructive and beneficial members of our society. Instead of criticizing and ignoring evils of our society we have to come forward and start collaborating to make a better place for everyone to enjoy a good living.




When you are kind to others, the impact of your action doesn't stop there.  Many times the recipient of your kindness and others who see or hear about your kindness are inspired to be kinder.  The ripples of kindness are truly endless.