A little thought

Sometimes beaten by adversity,
sometimes lost to wishes..

It's a partridge of an angry sun..
Who does have even the slightest of reservations, 

It doesn't ever bows to any pressure.. 

It doesn't care about the boundaries that the world follows,
The earth of the heart is dry,
The moisture is lost somewhere..

Even having borne the attacks of love,
and losing you again and again,
it still doesn't learn to plot against you...

it's always about you

Believe in yourself

Have faith in your abilities without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers, you cannot be successful or happy

God created only one you,
precious in his sight.
In all the whole world there is only one you.
there is only one person with your talents, your experience, your gift.
No one can take your place !!!
Begin now. Start afresh.
Give yourself a new beginning. Today
You are now and that is all you need to be.
You cannot earn or deserve this new life.
It is given as a gift, freely.
That is the great miracle:that God loves you.
So celebrate the miracle and celebrate you!

Words are powerful weapons!!!

Today, we live in a such a modern society whereby we are all in a kind of rat race. We are all worried about our own little world and are blinded with our selfish motives that sometimes we fail to see what is going  on around us .Without forgetting the fact that very often we do cause certain sort of pain to others.

It is very important for us to  ensure that at any moment of our life, we should not try to hurt others with whatever we say. We have to use our words carefully.

Like very often, we use much criticism and sarcasm while talking to people.Maybe we do not realize but these things always cause destructive harm. Most of the time, we tend to criticize others about their looks, their behaviour etc... Not forgetting the types of words we use 'effings, mothers and fathers' But have we ever try to think how bad that person might be feeling?

I do not think so...

It is as if when someone is not in my good books then let him bear my bad words!!!. When are we going to realize that words have great impact on people. Maybe short in length but heavy to bear.


We live in an open world so why should we close the doors of our brains???

We need to be careful with our tongue. If ever you feel that someone is wrong or the way of transmitting his message is wrong, better use certain constructive words or rather give her/him suggestions than to say things that might discourage him/her. You can also simply talk to that person privately instead of blowing things in publics.

Haaa. The biggest problem of people; GOSSIPING!!! Hello people find another exercise then rather keeping moving that tongue and lips which do nothing but harm to others!  Stop it. You like moving your tongues and lips please sing!!! Even if you have a cracked voice sing but do not talk about people's life. That's horrible. Let people breathe and live freely. Do not spread false humours or build stories on people's life. I am very much sure your own life is so much filled with problems. Hence cater for yourself first then poke your nose into other's life.

Always try to put yourself in the  place of the person about whom you are badmouthing. Well i do not think you would ever like to hear these very words through the mouth of another person.

Taste your words!!!

A little reminder :) Everyone has his suffering, some suffer too much while others too little

Today we live in such a modern society whereby no matter how much we possess, we are always in search of more and more. As  if our quench for materialistic things is never ending. We are all worried about our little being that sometimes we fail to see that around our vicinity there are people who are suffering and sometimes they lack mere things that we do not even appreciate.

Our mind and hearts are infested by a disease called ungratefulness. Lets us consider daily facts of our life. Our parents always put our needs first, always before them but we always have something to rebuke them. Why so? It is as if we have sold our integrity. Maybe we have to slow down and start open our eyes to things surrounding us. We need to start be generous and kind. In order to be kind, we have to pay attention to what is happening around us.  As we notice more things and help others, we get a glimpse of other ways of looking at things.  A broader perspective helps us to keep things in context.

Generosity is defined as the willingness to give freely.Generosity and kindness covers such a vast field, and is such an ocean of a subject, that to cover all of its details is an almost impossible task. Generosity and kindness doesn't only mean that you give when you still gain or retain, but in fact means to give when you yourself hardly have anything.


Our worldly possessions are bounties from God. Everything originates from God and everything will return to Him, thus, it is logical to behave as if that which we possess is merely a loan, something we are obligated to preserve, protect and ultimately share.

However, being generous does not only mean giving freely from what you have in abundance. It can be as simple as a smile, helping an elderly person with their groceries or removing objects from the road or path.Generosity does not lie in giving away something that is no longer useful but in giving freely from the things we love or need. It involves everything we can do for others with our time, actions and good  deeds

We have to start to think of others as we think of ourself. We need to be selfless that is we must help other with complete satisfaction and cheerful faces. That will be soothing to both the one who is helping out and the one who is being helped. We must develop that urge that we have to strive to do what ever we can do to lend a helping hand.

We have to be constructive and beneficial members of our society. Instead of criticizing and ignoring evils of our society we have to come forward and start collaborating to make a better place for everyone to enjoy a good living.

When you are kind to others, the impact of your action doesn't stop there.  Many times the recipient of your kindness and others who see or hear about your kindness are inspired to be kinder.  The ripples of kindness are truly endless.

one step at a time...

Human growth takes place when we take small steps. Each time we face our fears, we become more of the courageous person that we would like to be.
It has been said that life is the most patient teacher. You will be presented with the same experience over and over until you learn the best way to deal with the situation.. This is not because life is cruel. Rather, it is because things have a way of coming back to haunt us when we don't deal with them. One form of intelligence is the ability to learn from mistakes. When you are presented with a painful experience, take the time to think about how you can avoid it in the future.

Life is the sum of experiences that we encounter as we go through life. Day to day struggles and triumphs are experienced by all of the world's creatures. As human beings, when we encounter a challenge, we have freedom to choose how to react. Every decision that we make leads us down a different road. We will never come to exactly the same crossroads. Every decision the we make has significance. The tiniest choice that we make reverberates throughout the entire universe.

We all have problems as we try to go through life. There is no such thing as never having any barriers on our path to each destination.You need to accept the fact that you will have to deal with difficult problems, and probably more often than you want. You want to try not to have a one track mind, or close mind, when you are dealing with struggles. Be open for suggestions and assistance.

Sometimes we are faced with some difficult decisions. Often, we are uncertain as to which road to take. However, we must think the choices through and weigh out the positives and the negatives. We have to trust ourselves and try to make the best decision possible.  

Life is about choices. Everything we do in life is based upon a choice. We choose how we act as well as how we react. When something negative comes our way, we can choose to let it over power us and make our lives miserable, or we can choose to think positively and find a way to overcome it. 

Have this confidence that every difficult decisions will have to end one day. It is essential to keep faith and have patience.To have faith is to defy logic. It takes faith to think positively. One always have the solution of every difficulties after having patience. It is the key to all difficult situations. Think positively.To think positive means to have a mental attitude that allows into the mind only those thoughts, words, and images that work to move you forward through growth and success.  Thinking positive means to expect only that good things will happen, because they are supposed to happen.

Being a positive person doesn't mean skipping through life on rainbows, not accepting the bad and troublesome things that can happen in life...it deals with how you handle those tough situations. Positive thinkers react to bad situations in a positive way, and are able to manage those down times in a productive way that is less threatening to their mental and physical health.

"You'll never find a rainbow if you're looking down."

Nothing paralyzes us like fear of failure, but everyone who has ever been successful has experienced failure at some point. Don't let that fear stop you from moving forward. If things don't go your way the first time, look at what went wrong, see what you can learn from it, and then enthusiastically use those lessons going forward.If you want to be positive and productive, focus on the present and what you are doing today.So look for the humor in everyday life, seek out others who make you laugh, and try smiling instead of scowling when interacting with others.Optimism is a happiness magnet.  If you stay positive, good things and good people will be drawn to you.

 No matter what, there are always at least two options.  If you can’t physically change something, you can change the way you think about it.  You can sit in the dark, or you can find your inner light and discover powerful pieces of yourself you never knew existed.  You can view a crisis as an invitation to learn something new, viewing the shake-up in your outer world as an enlightening opportunity to wake-up your inner world.

Every birth has a death, Similarly even tough situation has an end. Keep faith and do not despair!!!

secrets of success

We all have the urge live a better life with all our heartfelt wants and to rather have a luxurious than one filled with obstacles. However we do not really always have want we want in our life. Every single person in this world is facing some sort of trial or test. There may be some facing trials in education, others in their jobs, still others in their businesses, and still more facing problems with family or friends. It is certainly difficult for a person to look at the tragedies of the world today and not feel helpless and sad. Problems are Universal!!! Life is full of difficulties and obstacles, from birth to death. At times, Life seems like a hurdle race. We are sure of encountering hurdles, but almost always we are taken by surprise. It is necessary to accept that life in general is full of difficulties and adversities. It may feel that we are not getting anywhere but we have to recognize the fact that patience and perseverance can overcome mountains.

               If we want to be successful in this world ,we have to be patient.

let us consider a very simple fact. We all have once come across a little bird, its beauty might have attracted our attention but maybe there is more than its beauty that we have to pay attention to.

Despite of scorching sun rays or clear pebbles of the rain, birds fly all around without losing sight of their ultimate goal and they bring little little parts and gradually build their nests.They adorn their little world forgetting about all the possible disasters.

Similarly we have to bear in mind that all our hardships can be tackled when we have patience. Every triumph is not of the same kind. Sometimes it arrives early and sometimes it takes a long time.So many times in our lives something happens to us and we feel that this is the worst thing that can happen to us. But then after the trial we realize that this is the best thing that could have happened to us. Be patient, because with any trial that you are going to face there will be ease. One must not imagine that victory is impossible and very difficult.We all will go through trials and tribulations but nevertheless we will be relieved.

We find it hard to complete our tasks because we feel like abandoning them as soon as they become difficult, and our miseries are further aggravated by our impatience. However, it is possible to accept and endure pain if we have a good reason to do so; and whenever we practice such patience we actually reduce our sufferings. For example, if someone were to stick a sharp needle into our flesh we would find the pain unbearable, but if the needle contained a vaccine that we needed, our tolerance would increase considerably.

If we are able to endure adversities we will reap great rewards.

Patience and perseverance, tolerance and forbearance are common traits of the world’s most successful people

Stay strong :)

Sometimes we are swamped by fears and anxiety.

Our sadness and worry become unbearable 

and even our thoughts are consumed by so much hatred.
It almost feels as if the horizon right in front of our eyes are hacked away.
For then nights seem barren and act like a black dagger.
All that we can do at that moment is NOT TO DESPAIR.
Despite we are given the ink of grief,

We can still write a new tale.

If we buckle down and explore all avenues,

it is certain that we will be able to break the back of the beast

and come out with flying colours.

Always remember for every night there is a new dawn which brings along new possibilities.

Be optimistic and self accepting

Have an attitude of mind and disposition of heart that will always open you to life.
success is failure turned inside out.
Champion is someone who gets up even when he can't.

"Everything is okay in the end, if it's not okay, then it's not the end."