Monday, 29 June 2015

I thought of a thought...

Sometimes It is good to spend time alone, to be on your own like we say

Developing a relationship with yourself, deepened by solitary pursuits, hobbies and taking time out from work and relationships. This  will help you to realise things

Being alone helps us to realise importance of people in your life. What impact their absence have in your daily life. It is like refreshing your ideas about those people. Tryimg to recognize who are those whose absence marks you the most

We will always be a mystery for each other but by learning to spend time alone will help you to appreciate what other do for you ...

By spending time with yourself and gaining a better understanding of who you are and what you desire in life, you're more likely to make better choices about who you want to be around. You also may come to appreciate your relationships more after you've spent some time alone.

Day to day responsibilities and
commitments can make your to-do list seem as if it has no end. This constant motion prevents you from engaging in deep thought, which inhibits creativity and lessens productivity. Hence being on your own helps you to be able to think deeply. It gives you the opportunity to discover yourself and to find your own voice that might be lost.

To be alone is not such a bad thing. Maybe the feelings that we tend to attach with loneliness are not correctly described.

Maybe  its high time that we need to review our thought on what it is to be alone...

Wednesday, 6 May 2015

No pain no gain

Sometimes it happens that nothing seems to be fine.
You start questioning yourself whether you have taken the right decisions
You find that maybe somewhere something  is not as it ought to be
Somehow you never thought, that you'll have to handle pains in order to live happily 
Never realized that you will have to pay a debt for each smile  

Now every time you smile, you are reminded of the debt that's weighing on your lips
But it's not as if these pains are without purpose
because each pain makes you aware of things you never noticed before

To make you realise that Aint you  a weak person!

It is only in the scorching heat that we come to know of the relief a cool shade brings...

Sunday, 8 February 2015

live freely!!!

Stop worrying, stop getting angry at things that ain't worth the energy you put into staying angry.

Take a shower, Bake a cake, bake five cakes.Hell, bake as much as you want.
Stay in bed and do 'nothing'.

Wake up in the morning with the determination to fall in love with everything that surrounds you!!!

Find quiet cafes that you've never come across before.Pretend you're a tourist and take photographs.

Do things that please your heart. Take care of yourself.

Just breathe....

Sunday, 1 February 2015

Expectations

One of our major source of heartache is expectation!!!

Most of us are often disappointed because their expectations of people are too high. You expect your boyfriends to read your mind, your friends to be there always, your parents to be more understanding and so on.

But guys, people know themselves much better than you do! So please do not expect them to always stand up to what you are expecting.

Its true that we expect more from others as we are willing to do that much for them. However not everyone thinks the same.

If you wish good for someone, it does not mean that he/she wish the same for you.

You cannot expect a bull not to charge you just because you are a vegetarian!!!

But do not worry!!!

If you love caring for others, putting efforts in relationships etc... You can keep on doing these thing but do not expect to be treated in the same way. No one plays marked cards. Sometime we win and sometimes we lose.

Do not expect to get anything back and most importantly do not be sorry for what you do or think.

We are all different and to be different is never a sin!!!




Wednesday, 31 December 2014

And its a wrap 2014

Well another chapter closes...
In a few hours this year will be gone too. But before saying goodbye 2014 and welcome 2015 why not we try to learn things from this year

I guess everyone has gone through bad things this year. Trusting issues, wrong decisions etc...

Let us not be sad upon these things but rather try to learn so as next year we will not repeat these things again.

Out there not everyone is the same. Indeed we live in a cruel world. We should never believe that if we wish good for others, they will also wish the same for us.So expect less and do not trust blindly.

Most importantly connect yourself to god before anyone else. Trust him more than anyone.Know that his plans are way better than your dreams.

Life is short. Yes sad fact but what we can actually do it to make the most of it everyday.

Run, fall and break your face. Then learn to get up again and find your happiness on your own.

Never depend on others for you to be happy. Happiness comes from inside of you. And ofcourse do not chase big happiness. Little things are what really matters; feeling raindrops dancing in the sunlight or just doing what makes you happy.

start afresh. Yes you can...

Monday, 1 December 2014

Never too late...

Hello world...
And it is December,the most beautiful time of the year...

We are left with only 31 days to end this year and it is up to us to decide whether to make the most of it and end this year beautifully or to keep it as it.

For those who could not make change during the last 11 months, worry not. You got 31 days left and it is enough to make this happen

December is the month of happiness, colours and light. So rise and start to shine bright...

Pick up pieces of your life and try to make it even better. Tighten the loose ends of your life and amend what is not good...

Remember always it is in your hand for you to be happy

❤❤❤

Build your own world of magic...

Sunday, 30 November 2014

Something like love...❤❤❤


In amidst of an ordinary life, there comes a moment when we come across love. That moment weighs out anything else in life.It is a more potent sentiment than a simple liking for another.
There is really no such thing as conditional love and unconditional love: it is just that there are conditions and there is love. Love is the most profound emotion known to human beings
  "We don't climb in love, we don’t walk in love or stand in love, we fall in love."
Falling in love may one of the greatest feelings ever. There is an  actual chemical process that happens to a person who is falling in love. All of the senses have a greater intensity. Colors seem brighter, sounds more resonant and smells more powerful when you are in love. When you are with your lover there is no greater feeling in the world, and when you're not you spend all your time thinking of each other. Falling in love is truly an awesome feeling.
The one that you first truly have feelings for. One person that you will never forget, their love will leave an imprint on your heart which will be there forever. At the moment you do not care that you will eventually lose them after a break up because that emotion is amazing.
There's nothing like the love. You've never had these feelings before and you imagine that no one else has ever felt this way about anybody. Your boyfriend or girlfriend are the greatest thing ever and you want to be with them all the time. Your senses become alive as you fall in love for the first time. You're not even thinking of the possibility that you may break up because that has never happened to you before. 
 Love is filled with the optimism that you will be together forever.You start to see yourself through someone else eyes, and are often wondering what you could do to be a better person to them.
The first person you ever had feelings for. It doesn't matter if it happened when you were five, or fifty-five. It doesn't matter if he or she loved you back. All that matters is that at one point in time, he or she was the first person you ever loved and wanted to be with. That rush you get when you see your lover. You feel weightless, and everyone else seems to disappear. You want to fall into their arms or kiss them. You restrain yourself, waiting for that perfect moment. Be patient. You will be together someday.
There may be chaos in all areas of your life but when you come home to the person that you love the most in the world, nothing else matters. A loving relationship may build slowly like a train coming in the distance until when it get to you it emits a deafening roar.
When it comes to true love, commitment is more than just monogamy. Its the knowledge that your partner cares for you and has your back, no matter what the circumstances.Some people think love is just talking kind, warm and cute words to each other, love is just telling “I love you”, is just being together and having fun. But reality is a bit different and love is hard. So what the true love meant to be? It’s caring of someone you love, being with him when he needs your help, doing everything to protect and look after him.
"Everyone’s relationship is unique"
A healthy relationship is about both people, not how much one person can get from (or give to) the other.A supportive, caring relationship allows people to reveal details about themselves — their likes and dislikes, dreams and worries, proud moments, disappointments, fears, and weaknesses.When two people care,  they offer support when the other person is feeling vulnerable or afraid. They don't put down or insult their partner, even when they disagree.Giving, receiving, revealing, and supporting is a back-and-forth process: One person shares a detail, then the other person shares something, then the first person feels safe enough to share a little more. In this way, the relationship gradually builds into a place of openness, trust, and support where each partner knows that the other will be there when times are tough. Both feel liked and accepted for who they are.
 Loving relationships teach us self-respect as well as respect for others. Love is one of the most fulfilling things we can have in our lives
In real love, absence makes your heart grow fonder of the one you love. Real love can and will survive the test of time and distance.
Real love is rooted in the other person’s total personality, not just their physical equipment. The time you spent together caused your personalities to “grow together.”
 True love, the real kind that both gets your blood pumping with excitement and has the ability to stand the test of time, comes not alone but hand-in-hand with respect, trust, honesty, and forgiveness.
When you are separated, a part of you seems to be missing. Another person, however attractive, cannot fill the void in your heart. When you are separated, you may feel anxious as well as sad. The thought may come, “What if he or she meets somebody else?”
Real love is unselfish, committed love. You want to do all you can to bring happiness to the other person. Your overall attitude is that of giving to the relationship and not that of getting what you can out of.
Sometimes in a relationship, it happens that you have a brotherly/sisterly relationship with your partner's best friends. This relation very often has a great importance in your love life as very often they help you out to build a much more stronger relation.They will support every aspect of your relationship and will try their best to help the lovers to put much effort in their relation. They will support their friend in ensuring the relationship keeps going and he/she is faithful. Very often they are the ones who will see the things amiss in your relationship and they make it an urge to help you out.
This is indeed another beautiful aspect of love. It is an agent to build up other relations that have a great importance in our life.
There is always one person who will have your heart. Even if they do not form part of your lives, there is a love that will always tie you up to them. That person will always be special to you in every possible way
Love is the emblem of eternity: it confounds all notions of time and effaces all memory of a beginning and the fear of an end.A strong, healthy relationship can be one of the best supports in your life. Good relationships improve all aspects of your life, strengthening your health, your mind, and your connections with others.