time helps to grow

how about rewinding ur life a year ago?

Iet us think of all the good things and the bad things that have helped us to gather up what we normally call memories.

Aint you proud of these memories? didn't them help to actually realize what are the real things that matter to you?

We say the best things happen unexpectedly. Not to forget before these best things we all go through the hell time of our life. Job loss, death of a dear one, deception in love etc etc...

At these worst time of our life, we just want someone to lean on, to help us Carry on. These beings are what we call our angels sent from above. most of the time it will be our bff our super gf,super bf or the least expected a friend whom we had not a bit of expectations to be there for us

Through out this year we came across people who left an impact on us, we've been to places that have marked us with the best or the worst memories.

What's more important whether you've been hurt or used, shocked or delighted, blessed or cursed, you have grown up into a better or bitter person!


This world of ours is actually a platform where we are all performing a particular role. There will be characters who will upgrade you to a better level while others will be too busy to bring you too. but they will all take you to places where you will be facing certain situations which will definitely help you to grow. To change your point of view. To actually find out who will be there for you or how are those who will pretend to be there.

Summing up, this year just like the year before has brought us to grow a little bit older and better. Maybe it was a year filled with bad memories or a year filled with good times, it made you be a wiser person that you were the year before.


#never_stop_believing

Down or Hopeless?

Do me a favor and go to maps.google.com, and zoom out until you can see the whole map then pick up the little orange man in the right corner and set him down anywhere in the world 
you have the ability to get a glimpse into someone else’s entire world.

the neighborhood whose streets they ran down when they were children. the corner store that their best friend’s dad owns. the path their grandmother took them for walks through. the coffee shop they go when they need to focus.everything. think about how before this moment, you had no idea that the place you landed even existed. but it does. 

and there is an entire planet’s worth of places just like it that you still have yet to know. a planet’s worth of narrow cafe-filled alleyways and flower-speckled country sides and everything in between. 

sometimes it can be hard to remember that there is anything outside of your current situation. but I promise, you still have the entire world waiting for you. 

#comemorningslight  #love 

I thought of a thought...

Sometimes It is good to spend time alone, to be on your own like we say

Developing a relationship with yourself, deepened by solitary pursuits, hobbies and taking time out from work and relationships. This  will help you to realise things

Being alone helps us to realise importance of people in your life. What impact their absence have in your daily life. It is like refreshing your ideas about those people. Tryimg to recognize who are those whose absence marks you the most

We will always be a mystery for each other but by learning to spend time alone will help you to appreciate what other do for you ...

By spending time with yourself and gaining a better understanding of who you are and what you desire in life, you're more likely to make better choices about who you want to be around. You also may come to appreciate your relationships more after you've spent some time alone.

Day to day responsibilities and
commitments can make your to-do list seem as if it has no end. This constant motion prevents you from engaging in deep thought, which inhibits creativity and lessens productivity. Hence being on your own helps you to be able to think deeply. It gives you the opportunity to discover yourself and to find your own voice that might be lost.

To be alone is not such a bad thing. Maybe the feelings that we tend to attach with loneliness are not correctly described.

Maybe  its high time that we need to review our thought on what it is to be alone...

No pain no gain

Sometimes it happens that nothing seems to be fine.
You start questioning yourself whether you have taken the right decisions
You find that maybe somewhere something  is not as it ought to be
Somehow you never thought, that you'll have to handle pains in order to live happily 
Never realized that you will have to pay a debt for each smile  

Now every time you smile, you are reminded of the debt that's weighing on your lips

But it's not as if these pains are without purpose

because each pain makes you aware of things you never noticed before

To make you realise that Aint you  a weak person!

It is only in the scorching heat that we come to know of the relief a cool shade brings...

live freely!!!

Stop worrying, stop getting angry at things that ain't worth the energy you put into staying angry.

Take a shower, Bake a cake, bake five cakes.Hell, bake as much as you want.
Stay in bed and do 'nothing'.

Wake up in the morning with the determination to fall in love with everything that surrounds you!!!

Find quiet cafes that you've never come across before.Pretend you're a tourist and take photographs.

Do things that please your heart. Take care of yourself.

Just breathe....

Expectations

One of our major source of heartache is expectation!!!

Most of us are often disappointed because their expectations of people are too high. You expect your boyfriends to read your mind, your friends to be there always, your parents to be more understanding and so on.

But guys, people know themselves much better than you do! So please do not expect them to always stand up to what you are expecting.

Its true that we expect more from others as we are willing to do that much for them. However not everyone thinks the same.

If you wish good for someone, it does not mean that he/she wish the same for you.

You cannot expect a bull not to charge you just because you are a vegetarian!!!

But do not worry!!!

If you love caring for others, putting efforts in relationships etc... You can keep on doing these thing but do not expect to be treated in the same way. No one plays marked cards. Sometime we win and sometimes we lose.

Do not expect to get anything back and most importantly do not be sorry for what you do or think.

We are all different and to be different is never a sin!!!

And its a wrap 2014

Well another chapter closes...
In a few hours this year will be gone too. But before saying goodbye 2014 and welcome 2015 why not we try to learn things from this year

I guess everyone has gone through bad things this year. Trusting issues, wrong decisions etc...

Let us not be sad upon these things but rather try to learn so as next year we will not repeat these things again.

Out there not everyone is the same. Indeed we live in a cruel world. We should never believe that if we wish good for others, they will also wish the same for us.So expect less and do not trust blindly.

Most importantly connect yourself to god before anyone else. Trust him more than anyone.Know that his plans are way better than your dreams.

Life is short. Yes sad fact but what we can actually do it to make the most of it everyday.

Run, fall and break your face. Then learn to get up again and find your happiness on your own.

Never depend on others for you to be happy. Happiness comes from inside of you. And ofcourse do not chase big happiness. Little things are what really matters; feeling raindrops dancing in the sunlight or just doing what makes you happy.

start afresh. Yes you can...